Parent Code of Conduct
Posted by Dan Hollandsworth on 10/25/2018
ADULT
BEHAVIOR
At the
YMCA, our mission is to serve the community.
Youth sports help us to achieve that mission. Parents and volunteers are a key component of
meeting that mission. In order for
children to reap the benefits of the YMCA programs, parental cooperation and
guidance are of the utmost importance.
The following is a list of things coaches and parents can do to help
children succeed in sport, and in life:
·
Teach
responsibility and caring by being there at practice and games
·
Show
respect for others by being on time
·
Stress
fair play and sportsmanship at home and on the field/court
·
Face
confrontations with an open mind and heart
·
Settle
disputes through deliberation instead of retaliation
·
Treat
coaches, officials and other parents as you would have them treat you or your
child
·
Show
the importance of commitment by attending all scheduled events for the entire
season
·
Allow
children to become athletically involved at their own pace
·
Encourage
understanding
·
Become
involved in activities yourself
·
Allow
children to be children
·
Teach
respect, show respect
·
Have
FUN
Any inappropriate behavior
exhibited by coaches, parents, guests, or other spectators toward players,
coaches, officials, Y staff, other parents, or spectators will absolutely NOT
be tolerated. Exhibiting inappropriate
behavior may result in expulsion from a game or practice, and could further
lead to exclusion (being banned) from all youth sports activities.
TOBACCO POLICY
As a
leader in the community in Youth Development, Healthy Living and Social
Responsibility, the Y is officially against the use of tobacco products. All Y facilities and their community
collaborators offering practice and/or game time and space are thus tobacco
free. Please DO NOT smoke or use
smokeless tobacco products at any practices or games. You will be asked to stop or leave should you
not adhere to this policy.
SNACKS- Please notify your coach immediately if your child has a food allergy
Healthy
snacks provide energy, replenish energy, and help re-enforce life-long healthy
eating habits. Parents will be assigned
by their coaches to a snack schedule. To
promote healthy eating habits, care and attention to snack ingredients and
nutritional content is encouraged. The
following is a list of more healthy snack and drink options:
·
Water
OR 100% juices – Apple & Eve,
Mott’s 100% juice, Libby’s Juicy Juice, Minute Maid 100% juice
·
Fruits
or vegetables – apples, grapes, bananas, oranges, raisins
·
Carbs
- popcorn, crackers, granola bars, pretzels
EQUIPMENT
A team
shirt or jersey will be provided for each player. Players will provide their own athletic shoes
and shorts, sweatpants, running pants or yoga pants. Colored wrist bands are provided on game days
for younger age groups to assist them to learn the concept of guarding a
certain player.
The Y
will provide basketballs for practices and games. However, it’s recommended that each player
purchase their own ball in order to practice outside of their scheduled
practice time (at home). Basketball
sizes per age group are:
|
4-5
yr old Co-ed 6-7
yr old Co-ed 8-10
yr old Girls |
JUNIOR
SIZE (27.5”) |
|
8-9
yr old Boys 10-13 yr old Boys 11-15
yr old Girls |
INTERMEDIATE
SIZE (28.5”)
|
MENTORING
& SPORTSMANSHIP
Good
sportsmanship begins with coaches and parents.
Players will watch and copy coach behaviors. Coping with winning and losing is an
essential part of playing sports.
Coaches much reinforce appropriate attitudes toward winning and losing.
Winning
– strongly reinforce winning “with class”.
No taunting or humiliation of an opponent is ever acceptable. Should this occur, immediately pull the
child(ren) aside, stopping play if necessary, to explain the behavior
modification required. Never embarrass
the child by speaking in a loud or humiliating tone. Speaking to parents may also be necessary.
Losing
– many times loses may be accompanied by tears of disappointment. Praise children for their effort, assuring
them that there will be another chance to play and win.
In the
Y developmental basketball program, youth should experience and learn about
every position and the required skills needed to become a complete player
(fundamentals, learning and developing skills in all aspects of the sport). Care must be taken not to place a child in a
position permanently based on physical appearance or limited skill. Allow and encourage them to try all positions
and teach all skills to all players on the team.